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Nurturing the Love for Reading in Your Child: Tips for Every Parent

Saturday, September 9, 2023 by Demitra Bryant | Tips

Nurturing the Love for Reading in Your Child: Tips for Every Parent

As parents, one of the greatest gifts we can give our children is the love for reading. Encouraging a passion for books not only unlocks the doors to knowledge but also sparks their imagination, fosters critical thinking skills, and instills a lifelong love for learning. If you're wondering how to kindle this love for reading in your elementary school-aged child, you're in the right place! In this friendly guide, I've share tips and tricks to make reading a cherished part of your child's life.

Tip 1: Start Early and Make It Fun

The journey of a book lover often begins in infancy. Surround your child with age-appropriate books from a young age. Board books with vibrant colors, textures, and simple stories are perfect for engaging their senses. Reading should be a delightful experience, filled with smiles, cuddles, and laughter.

Tip 2: Be a Reading Role Model

Children often mimic the behaviors they see in adults. If your child sees you enjoying a good book, they are more likely to want to read too. Make reading a visible part of your daily life. Share what you're reading with excitement and discuss books as a family.

Tip 3: Create a Cozy Reading Nook

Design a special reading space in your home—a cozy nook with comfy cushions and well-lit shelves filled with books. Make it inviting, so your child feels drawn to spend time there. Let them choose books from their nook to read independently or with you.

Tip 4: Visit the Library Regularly

Libraries are treasure troves of books, offering a vast array of choices for all ages. Take your child to the library regularly. Let them explore and pick books that interest them. Libraries often host storytelling sessions and reading-related events, which can make the library a fun outing.

Tip 5: Explore Various Genres

Don't limit your child to one genre. Explore a wide range of books, including fiction, non-fiction, fantasy, mysteries, and more. Let them discover what types of stories captivate their imagination. Diversity in reading material can be enriching.

The next blog will feature 5 more tips. 

Happy Reading!

5-Tips in Selecting Books for Kids that HATE Reading

Sunday, May 3, 2020 by Demitra Bryant | Tips


One of the biggest concerns I see as a middle school educator and tutor is the constant avoidance of students checking books out from their school media center/library. They act like it’s a scary place the visit. This seems to be the common norm for many middle school students, and I feel confident that it’s also happening at the elementary and high school levels. I’ve heard excuses like, “we have books at home I can read” or “my mom won’t let me check out a book because I always lose them.”

In many cases, these were merely excuses of I hate reading and they’ll do anything to avoid selecting a book, even a failing grade. 

Many of my students use these excuses and it wasn’t until I sat down and spoke to them to found out the reason(s) why. 


“Going to the library is confusing”

Entering the library/media center can be intimidating because there are so many choices. The feeling can be overwhelming, but isn’t that the case in many new situations? For many, it takes time to get a steady flow of how things work and with consistency, your child/student will be able to crack the code in selecting the perfect book. 

Book Selection Tip One:

Familiarize yourself with the school or public library system in advance. Many school libraries have an electronic system in which students can open an account, preview books, see the availability of books and drop them into an electronic book bag. Making a list of books they want to read PRIOR to going to the library can lessen the stress. 

Write or print out the list of preferred books, take at least two from the shelf and find a cozy area in the library to read a couple of pages. If those books aren’t spiking an interest, repeat the process. When you find the one that interests you, proceed to checkout. 

At the checkout counter, your child/student will be asked for their identification number. If they can’t remember it, the clerk will ask for first/last name, compare their picture to the person at the counter, and then allow the book to be checked out. 


“I Don’t Know What To Read”

This must be the number one complaint that I hear from students. They simply don’t know what to read and wander the library looking confused as to what to select. I’ve literally witnessed kids walking to a bookshelf, grabbing a book and going to the checkout line without even looking at the cover. These would also be the students that were struggling readers in class and in many cases borderline failing. 

Book Selection Tip Two: 

Discover your child’s/students’ interest(s). Do they enjoy watching movies? If so, what type of movies: adventure, suspense, comedy, animation?  In the world of reading, these are called genres. Do they prefer fiction or non-fiction? Most media centers are categorized by either genres or call numbers. If the library is set up by genre type, then students can quickly go to that section.

“This book looks hard”

Are you aware that students are given reading diagnostics several times of year? Did you realize that books are given reading levels? In this process, your child’s teacher administers several reading diagnostics each year. The scores provided indicate the reading grade level and/or Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD) which is an indicator the books your child will be comfortable reading that will also allow readability growth. Most books are categorized with a reading level and by combining your child’s reading level and the ZPD books. Please note that there are several types of diagnostics and that the one mentioned above is one of many. 

Book Selection Tip Three:

Ask the teacher for a copy of the diagnostic. In many cases, the diagnostic may also come with a suggestion of books to read that are within your child’s ZPD. Use the suggested book list to create their reading list until the next diagnostic is given. 

“This book looks boring”

I often quote the famous expression, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”, when my students tell me that a book looks boring. 

Book Selection Tip Four:

First, look at the book cover. Does it strike any interests? Why? Next, check out the back cover or inside and read the summary. Finally, read the first page. Are there any words that are unfamiliar and difficult? 

“I never finish a book”

Never finishing a book must be one of the biggest areas of concern I hear as an educator. Students are given two weeks to borrow a book from the library and usually expected to take an exam afterward. Of course, most wait until the night before to start reading a book, and then they’re confused as to why they didn’t do well on the exam.

Book Selection Tip Five:

When selecting a book, consider how many days the book must be returned and the examination date. Divide the number of pages by the number of days. Plan on a certain number of pages per day and/or read at least 30 minutes daily. Reading the book with your child is another way of assuring that the book will be completed and you’ll be able to spend time together.

Now that you know some of the reason why your child may not be checking books out from the library or not reading, you can use the tips to create an action plan. Going to the library shouldn’t be a daunting task. It should be an experience that your child enjoys and looks forwards to. 

Would you like to know your child’s current reading level? As a thank you for taking the time to read this blog post, I’m offering you a FREE Reading Assessment. The results from this assessment will help you move into the next step of helping your child improve their reading and start enjoying selecting books from the library.