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Think Tutors Make Kids Dependent? Here’s Why They Actually Build Independence!

Monday, September 9, 2024 by Demitra Bryant | Uncategorized

Some parents fear that hiring a tutor will make their child reliant on extra help.


But when it comes to reading and writing, the exact opposite is true!
A skilled tutor doesn’t just help students complete assignments—they equip them with lifelong learning skills that foster independence.

In this post, I’ll break down how tutors use proven strategies to help students not only catch up but thrive, all while becoming more self-sufficient learners.

Understanding the Misconception

Parents often believe that school should be enough for their child to master reading and writing.


But the reality is, there are challenges within the education system that may leave children behind.


From outdated textbooks to insufficient teacher training, these roadblocks can prevent a child from receiving the individualized attention they need to succeed.


This is where a tutor becomes invaluable—not as a crutch but as a guide to help fill those learning gaps.

Why Tutoring Builds Independence

It’s natural for parents to worry that their child might become dependent on a tutor.


However, tutoring in reading and writing involves modeling good habits and guiding students toward self-sufficiency.


For example, reading requires foundational skills like phonemic awareness, decoding strategies, and fluency.


A tutor provides direct, structured instruction in these areas, and gradually releases control, allowing the student to apply what they’ve learned independently.

In writing, students learn how to construct sentences, paragraphs, and essays through direct instruction, but the ultimate goal is for them to write confidently on their own.

Real-Life Success: Heather’s Story

Take Heather, for example.


When she first began tutoring, she struggled with phonemic segmentation, word recognition, fluency, vocabulary, and comprehension.


Her writing also lagged behind, as she had trouble constructing even simple sentences.


But with targeted instruction, Heather advanced from a 1st-grade reading level to a 3rd-grade level within a year.


Her writing improved to the point where it no longer caused her anxiety or frustration.


With regular attendance, family involvement, and a desire to succeed, Heather transformed into an independent learner.

Proven Strategies for Independence

In my tutoring sessions, I use specific strategies to empower students to take control of their learning:

  • Phonemic Awareness Drills: Teaching students to break words into sounds to build strong reading skills.

  • Decoding Strategies: Helping students break down complex words into syllables and recognize patterns.

  • Guided Oral Reading: Modeling fluency, then allowing students to read independently.

  • Graphic Organizers for Writing: Helping students plan their thoughts visually, and eventually write without them.

  • Editing and Revising with Checklists: Encouraging students to self-edit and improve their writing.

Tracking Progress and Family Involvement

Every session concludes with detailed lesson notes to keep parents informed about what was covered and how the student performed.


Additionally, follow-up assessments are done every 12 weeks to evaluate progress and adjust strategies if needed.


This ensures everyone is on the same page about the student’s growth and areas for improvement, creating a supportive environment for continued success.

Tutoring isn’t about dependency—it’s about giving students the skills and confidence to succeed on their own.


By working closely with families and providing structured support, tutors help students overcome obstacles and become independent readers and writers.


With the right guidance, any student can thrive!


Ready to see your child become an independent reader and writer?
Don’t let school challenges hold them back! Discover how personalized tutoring can empower your child to thrive on their own. Feel free to send an email to me at demitra@mytutorhelpsme.com or call 770-675-6311